flying hundred dollar bills in the sky with a rainbow behind them For most of your life, money comes in at a slow and somewhat steady pace. Maybe you get a paycheck every two weeks or a Social Security payment once a month. Now and then you might get a bump from a raise, bonus, gift or side hustle. Sometimes, though, you have a genuine windfall, the type with three or more zeros at the end of it: an inheritance, an insurance settlement, a lump-sum pension payout or the proceeds from the sale of a long-held family home. Even a tax refund can seem like found money at times.
At these moments, you’re faced with the challenge of handling the sudden appearance of a large sum of money that could change your life — or be a lost opportunity. Follow this plan to make the most of the moment. Slam on the brakes
“The first thing to do is take a deep breath,” says New Orleans financial planner H. Jude Boudreaux. “We often rush to make a decision, and quick choices can lead to regret.” You need to give yourself time to process your emotions and plan carefully, especially when a windfall is the result of an unhappy event like the death of a family member or a settlement from a traumatic accident.
While you’re figuring out your next steps, you may want to park the money in a safe place that’s separate from the rest of your savings, making it less tempting to fritter away. Up to $250,000 of a single depositor’s accounts in the same category at a bank or credit union is insured. Alternatively, U.S. Treasury bills are extremely low risk. Ride out the emotional roller coaster
With an inheritance, you might feel that you don’t deserve the bequest or wish that the deceased person had enjoyed the money while alive; the resulting mixture of guilt and grief might cause you to burn through the money quickly or impulsively give it all away. Even if the source of the money isn’t tragic — perhaps it’s a home sale — your first reaction can be giddily irrational. We have a natural tendency to treat found money differently than income from a paycheck, leading to mindless splurges.
Megan McCoy, a marriage and family therapist who teaches financial therapy at Kansas State University, suggests talking to a friend or therapist to help articulate your emotions and how they might be affecting your financial plans. “Try to have a split in your brain,” she says. “Keep the financially smart things to do and the emotional processing distinct.” Create a timeline
When you’re sorting out what to do with a windfall, Boudreaux recommends breaking your plan into three parts: now, soon and later. During the “now” period, figure out what you really have to work with, including whether any of the windfall is subject to taxes. Inheritances, for example, can be taxed in six states. Life insurance proceeds, except for interest, generally aren’t taxed, gains on a home might be, and lottery winnings are. Once you determine your net dollar amount, consider shoring up your financial health by paying off high-rate credit card balances and bulking up your emergency fund .
In the “soon” stage, it’s time to develop a full financial plan for the money, including an investment strategy and management of your other debt, such as the mortgage on your home. (Don’t race to pay off that mortgage in the “now” phase, advises Columbus, Ohio, financial planner Jill Gianola. “Emotionally, it feels good,” she adds. “But from a purely financial point of view, you’re better off not paying off your mortgage, and investing and letting money grow.”)
And the “later” part of the process? That’s deciding on big moves like buying a vacation home, making large gifts to charity or family, and updating your estate plan. “Give yourself time to ensure you’re happy with your decisions before you do anything,” McCoy says. Prepare for pleas
A windfall may bring friends or family members out of the woodwork, hat in hand, but planning for your own financial security should be your priority. If someone asks for financial help that you’d rather not give, McCoy suggests this defense: First say that you’ll think about it and promise to talk later, then practice your assertiveness skills to stay calm during the upcoming conversation. “If a person truly loves you,” she says, “they should be able to accept no for an answer.” If you’re rejecting a request, […]
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